Women and Voluntary Ignorance

Women often play mind games with men who they plan to friendzone/or brotherzone.  The men whom they value, sexually/romantically, the guys who they REALLY want to sleep with, or already have slept with, they look for clues and hints of reciprocated interest.  Every word he says, they all ears. Their eyes are fully engaged, no playing with cell phones. A woman who is “locked in” with you will scan you, up and down….  Men who are devalued romantically/sexually will typically fall prey to a woman’s game of being unaware of their attraction for them.  Women are prolific actors. Women are excellent at giving men the illusion of surprise when men express romantic interest, when they already know the who, what, when, where, and why about you.  This is especially true for women who command a lot of male attention.  Women who command a lot of male attention are aware that almost all of the boys/men they will encounter in life want to sleep with them.  Sounds crude, but these are the facts as I see them.  So, in knowing this, do not allow a woman to play games with you.  Your “female friend” already knows you find them attractive. Biologically and socially, humans often give “tells” of interest, even if they are not aware of them. She notices how you perk up when she enters a room. She notices when your voice changes when you are around her. She notices that you may get nervous around her. She notices that you say yes to anytime she needs you. Boys and men who are attracted to a girl/woman seldom say no to their requests. She notices when you can barely hold eye contact with her. She notices how your mood or body language adjusts when she brings her REAL man around or talks about him in conversation.

This is why working on yourself is SO important.  The more you improve on yourself, the more you will be able to increase your chances of becoming a man she DOES check for.