Women and Voluntary Ignorance

Dating/relationships are based in power dynamics, that is, at any point of time, you are playing either the dominant or the submissive in the relationship. Don’t let anyone lie to you about this.  As a man, you should be occupying the dominant position at almost every level with the woman/women you are seeing. Don’t misunderstand.  There are some things that women are naturally better suited to take charge in. However, in the relationship or dating scene, you as the man, overall, should always be in a position where you are controlling the pace, the tempo of the “game”. 

This is why focusing on women with high interest is important, regarding maintaining that “power”.  The more you have to pursue a woman, the more power she has over you. PERIOD.  When you are pursuing them, they can smell the thirst in you.  The saying, “Living Rent Free in Your Head” comes to my mind. At very least the chase should EQUAL at all times…  She should be making a point to come in see you and expressing the want to be around you as much as you are to her.   You can’t fake power; it is something that IS.  That is why it is important for you to start building yourself from within, then without. Fortify your mental, emotional, and spiritual mind.  Once you do this, that is when you will begin manifesting your goals in the physical world. Self Esteem is everything.