Power Dynamics- Why is it Important?

Dating/relationships are based on power dynamics, that is, at any point in time, you are playing either the dominant or the submissive in the relationship. Don’t let anyone lie to you about this.  As a man, you should be occupying the dominant position at almost every level with the woman/women you are seeing. Don’t misunderstand.  There are some things that women are naturally better suited to take charge of. However, in the relationship or dating scene, you, as the man, overall, should always be in a position where you are controlling the pace, the tempo of the “game”.  This is why focusing on women with high interest is important, regarding maintaining that “power”.  The more you have to pursue a woman, the more power she has over you. PERIOD.  When you are pursuing them, they can smell the thirst in you.  The saying, “Living Rent Free in Your Head,” comes to my mind. At the very least, the chase should EQUAL at all times…  She should make a point to come in to see you and express the desire to be around you as much as you are to her.   You can’t fake power; it is something that IS.  That is why you need to start building yourself from within, then without. Fortify your mental, emotional, and spiritual mind.  Once you do this, that is when you will begin manifesting your goals in the physical world. Self-esteem is everything.